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My Myeloma Journey, What Does Faith Have To Do With It?  Godwink, Wink, Wink, Wink ..... or just a series of Convenient Coincidences?

6/14/2015

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I do not know about you, but as I age and confront my mortality, and myeloma certainly makes us understand mortality, I find that I get closer to God, as I get closer to God!  On this website I often times give the sign off "Good Luck and May God Bless Your Families Myeloma Journey", and I have gotten some negative feedback for mentioning God.  The Good Luck is for those who do or do not believe and the God Bless if for those who do, and I try to offend no one, but am just trying to be of help to the myeloma patient community.  This is a data-based website, and should be able to be used by all who have faith or do not believe in a higher power. 

So why do I even mention God or my faith in my journey with myeloma?   The simple answer: I try to fulfill a promise I made to a nurse at  Mayo Jacksonville.  I assume the health care professionals at Mayo knew, as did my daughter (a health editor at the Wall Street Journal), that as a myeloma patient with dialysis-dependent kidney failure in 2005 I had little to no chance of surviving over 6 months.  The average life expectancy for this combination was just 3 months.   The nurse looked at me and said I will pray for you to beat this, but I ask that you bear witness.  So this reference and my tendency to sometimes include faith in my writing comes from this interaction with a Mayo nurse, but most of all from my personal relationship with God.   I pray, and when I pray I find that I frequently believe I get confirmation though something that some people call a Godwink.
WHAT'S A GODWINK? A godwink is what some people would call a coincidence, an answered prayer, or simply an experience where you'd say, "Wow, what are the odds of that!"

It seems to me, I have had a few in my life.  I find a Great Blue Heron seems to show up when I am in  need of making difficult decisions and are answers to a prayer for guidance.  This is a coincidence which repeats itself more times than I can count.  But now I live next to  a pond in north Florida, they are around all of the time. 

Godwink 4 -  One such Godwink happened when I was at Mayo Jacksonville, and my prognosis was bleak.  I was visited by a neighbor who was a miracle herself.  She had a brain tumor, half of her brain had  been removed and she was a happy, healthy, survivor.  At the ICU at Mayo she, her husband, and my family prayed together,  and it was cathartic. 
The nurse came through the door and said all the alarms were going off for heart rate, blood pressure, etc.  and thought I might be crashing.  A few days later the doctor came to me and said he got my most recent light chain numbers and he thought the nurse had put the decimal point in the wrong location.  My numbers went from terrible to near normal!

Godwink 5 -  Mayo had saved my life, but I had to make a decision as to where to get a stem cell transplant which my doctor at Mayo had recommended.  I had talked to my accountant who had survived stage 4 cancer, and she told me of her decision to go to the Cleveland Clinic and not to a hospital close to home.  She said she would remember the bible story of the woman who touched Jesus' robe.  When she heard about Jesus, she came up behind him in the crowd and touched his cloak, because she thought, “If I just touch his clothes, I will be healed.” Immediately her bleeding stopped and she felt in her body that she was freed from her suffering.  That Sunday my wife Anita and I went to church, and the subject which our preacher chose to teach on that day was the story of the woman who touched the robe of Jesus and was healed.  I chose to go to UAMS in Arkansas, and am now 9 years in CR.  Coincidence or Godwink?


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If you have never heard of Godwink, a popular series of books has been written by the author SQuire Rushnell.  He is an American author and inspirational speaker and former television executive. His books in the When God Winks series have appeared on the New York Times bestseller list.

In addition to Godwinks, I have a family who had me on a number of prayer lists, and this support and faith allowed me to have a comfort which made what was a very stressful situation almost stress free.  I am an engineer and it is easy for me to be fact-based and analytic, however I also believe with divine guidance we can always improve outcomes.

Good luck and may God Bless your Family's Cancer Journey.   For more information on multiple myeloma survival rates and treatments CLICK HERE and you can follow me on twitter at: https://twitter.com/grpetersen1



5 Comments
Alex
6/16/2015 09:55:49 pm

I can't believe it...a make believe deity brings us some form of relief ..wow...I haven't seen a poster in any hospital or chapter in any book on bunnies, gods or aliens. You can't be serious in selling this stuff or is that the aim...a sale? What a cheek....relying on this rubbish for help...Seems like the cool aid has really taken a hold

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Gary Petersen link
6/16/2015 10:46:53 pm

Alex, I see you feel it was just a series of convenient coincidences, and I respect your right to disagree. It is not a sale on may part, but a belief. If you have or someone in your family has myeloma Good Luck and may God Bless your family's myeloma journey. Gary

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Lizzy Smith link
6/17/2015 06:31:04 am

Everyone is entitled to their beliefs and to openly share their myeloma journey. I have faith and believe in god and appreciate the share. It is beautiful and powerful. Alex, you don't need to believe, you sure don't need to read. If you have an inspiring story about YOUR myeloma journey, submit it to me at [email protected]. if others can gain strength or knowledge, or hope, we are all ears.

Thank you, Gary, for sharing. I too have had moments where I felt comforted, guided and even carried. Getting close to death is quite the experience.

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Gary Petersen link
6/17/2015 08:17:08 am

Thank You Lizzy, I appreciate your kind and and always thoughtful inputs. For all who do not know Lizzy she is a Myeloma Survivor,
Communications Director and Editor of Myeloma Crowd. You do a great job maintaining the MyelomaCrowd web page, and making it a great resource for the myeloma patient community. Gary

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Cara Mengobati Penyakit Amandel link
1/22/2016 05:19:19 pm

I am grateful to be able to find this website, by chance I have an assignment on the topics discussed in this post. thanks.

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